Lack of Direction?

Axe
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Post by Axe »


Hey p0t8o!


 


I go back an forth in my desire to do things. Sometimes I fell like things are completly useless, other times I do not. All my parents really seem to care about is me doing something that would support myself, and thus get me out of their life. And as the last child at home, I can't blame them.


 


While my future is uncertain, there are certain things I do know for sure; I don't want to be working in some dumb dead end job. I did that for almost a year and hated it. In three years you could have a degree and get a decent paying job. Although it wouldn't be where you would want to be, it would be a start. You need credits in uni, that's a certainty. You only need to please yourself in life, not the expectations of others. No sense in doing something you don't want to do.


 


I think you're a smart guy. Contemplating why we do what we do shows profound thinking. There are those who do what they're told, and those who question the system. Only the later get anywhere in life. You might want to check out philosophy. You should sign up for a class if it's offered, I think you'll enjoy it. It's different than any other class you will ever take and I guarantee it'll give you a different perspective on things. It may even give you some direction in life.


 


Some advice:


-Stay away from computer careers. Besides the fact it's no longer a desirable market, it's really not a field that will enhance your mind.


-Don't settle for something you don't want to be doing.


-The time will pass no matter what you do.


-Try new things all the time. That's the best cure for apathy.


 


I don't know what I want to do yet either, but I'll take all the time I need to make a decision. Good luck with your search.


mR p0t8o h3d
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Post by mR p0t8o h3d »


hai axe!


 


Suddenly i'm on a high again - maybe it's cos i stopped smoking weed (hopefully for good this time) - but suddenly life seems worth living again and i'm not too bothered about the fundamental pointlessness of everything anymore. I'm at uni in the UK where we don't do all this crazy credit sheot (and thanks for the career advice, but I'm now getting on for half way through a degree in computer science... lucky me...) so a philosophy course isn't an option, but it's something I've been interested in getting an interest in for a while, and with my new-found motivation I'm off to get some books on the 1st year reading list out of the library...


 


Anyway, once again I've forgotten the point I was trying to make, but I'm not really bothered cos today I've done more than just get stoned and listen to music I've already heard while repeating a conversation I've had a hundred times before with exactly the same people :)


mr_lee
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Post by mr_lee »


good lad big fella :)


 


you go get 'em tiger


Cubensis
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Post by Cubensis »

I dont think everyone should go to college. I do think everyone should get an education, and thee are plenty jobs out there that dont need a degree and pay alot of money. Try going to a trade school and get to learn a trade. im going to learn how to install and service data/telecom lines.

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