I wouldn't, it might just be me but a girl who has sex at 13 is a total turn off for me.
fuck fuck fuck fuck what am i gonna do??!
yeah so she imed me tonight......
GIRL: hey
nim3c: hey
GIRL: wut r u doin
nim3c: buring a cd for my parents
nim3c: need to copy some albums for them
GIRL: awwwww thas cute
GIRL: im bored
nim3c: yeah me too
nim3c: pimpette
GIRL: lol i thought it was cute
GIRL: can i talk to u about somethin
nim3c: sure
GIRL: i was talkin to andrea and sarah and they told me that they talked to u and that u said that u feel uncomfortable about sierra and i dont want u to feel like that so.. if u are then im sorry
nim3c: its not that im uncomfterable
nim3c: its just what other people thnk of it
nim3c: just the whole thing of havin a baby at 16
GIRL: yea... i can understand that
GIRL: cause it does look bad
nim3c: yeah
nim3c: well what happened anyway? you had sex a few times and then you get pregnant?
nim3c: *got
GIRL: basically.. like we went out forever and he wanted to but i didnt but i gave into him and like after like 2 times i was pregnant
GIRL: but if u dont like me cause i have a baby like i can understand that
nim3c: i guess its that
nim3c: but its more of what other people said
GIRL: wut did they say
nim3c: just like oh she has a kid
nim3c: wow
nim3c: just shocked how young
GIRL: yea... its a bad situation and i am too young to have a kid so.. its ok if u dont like me because of it ..because i dont wanna make u look bad
nim3c: i mean i really do like you its just the whole baby thing
nim3c: if we were in our 20s it would be a diff thing, even if sierra was 6 or something it would just be diff
nim3c: im sorry
GIRL: its ok because i understand where ur coming from and it does look bad
GIRL: so dont worry about it
nim3c: this is just such a hard situation
GIRL: i kno its just that here things are different .. because u see this kind of thing all the time but i guess its different there
nim3c: yeah
nim3c: if a girl starts to show at our school they kick her out
nim3c: and its rare that a girl gets pregnant
nim3c: it just seen if a girl has a baby then she is automatically a slut
GIRL: well some ppl here act like that.. but i kno that im not .. but im sorry that i brought up the whole thing cause i wouldnt wanna make u look bad
nim3c: i mean i dont feel like that it all depends on the situation
nim3c: hell you have had less sex than alot of girls from my school
nim3c: its good that you brought it up though
nim3c: cuz we would of had to talk about it avenchally
GIRL: well not if i hadnt told u that i liked u
nim3c: yeah
nim3c: but i knew you did
nim3c: cept on sat when you were talkin to matt the whole time
nim3c: he thought you liked him
GIRL: ewwwww
GIRL: no
nim3c: you really liked me since the first day?
GIRL: yup well i thought u were cute then.. but i really started to like u when i started to talk to u cause ur like perect.. and ur so sweet
nim3c: lol
nim3c: perfect how??
GIRL: ur just like the perfect guy
nim3c: lol
nim3c: shit i dont think anyone has ever said that to me
GIRL: awww well i dont see y not cause thats wut i think
nim3c: you so sweet too
nim3c: just the whole baby thing
GIRL: yea and its times like this when i wish i didnt have her yet
GIRL: cause i really like u
nim3c: yeah its not that i dont wish that she doesnt exist
nim3c: its just i dunno adhasjkfgfdsfdsfsd
nim3c: such a hard situation
(ps: just block her and walk away, no sense getting involved, you have your whole life to find someone and a mighty big ocean to find them in)
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ok so from that little convo i got this impressions:
she is really sweet, and likes you alot, but knows how you feel about the baby thing, and even though it hurts her and makes her regret her past choices even mroe she will respect your wishes
..honestly dude, i would give it a try...i mean, if i lived my life going on what other people thought about me and my situations, fuck...i would be a completely different person. you should do what YOU think is right, not what other people think. ask her out on a date, see how it works out, who knows...it could be something good. the kid thing has potential to cause a problem...but you dont know for sure, if she is really clingy and starts taking up all of your time, end it...but you dont know if that is going to happen or not.
go by what YOU feel man, dont even think about what other people will say.
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dude thats kinda hard.....i work with her so we spend like 6hr+ shifts at a time alone in the rink concession stand.
she just came online....i should talk to her