fuck fuck fuck fuck what am i gonna do??!

*Peter North* · Post by ***Peter North*** » Wed Mar 05, 2003 9:11 pm

go for it

SwedeRacer · Post by **SwedeRacer** » Thu Mar 06, 2003 2:30 am

nimec, that conv pretty much just ended everythin with her. she knows Y u wont date her or anything. just move on

I kinda have to agree. I dunno, chill with her somemore, you never know what might happen. Life is gonna suck abit for her, because of the kid, and pretty much everyone is going to feel the same way about her that you do. Keep your options open, and even if you dont go out with her, stay her friend, because, with a kid, shes going to want, and need some body to talk too.

mr_lee · Post by **mr_lee** » Thu Mar 06, 2003 4:57 am

woah now that's what i call a sticky situation!

from reading that conversation she sounds really nice and really interested in you (obviously). you didn't pull any punches when you told her how you felt, and to be honest, that will just make her feel like shit. it's something she can't change, and she even said she wishes she didn't have sierra. she must feel crazy bad to say something like that. you should tell her you don't think you can commit due to other reasons, because as i said it'll just make her feel really bad, which is not what you want to do. play it safe, but whatever happens don't let this come in the way of your relationship - so many times really good friendships are ruined when one asks the other out to a negative response... just be a gentlemen about it big fella!

as kindred said don't listen to what your folks have to say as far as girls go. it's about you, not them!

or on the flip-side pay for a ticket to the states for me and i'll rub 'er out. :)

gl,hf!

Blimpet · Post by **Blimpet** » Thu Mar 06, 2003 10:34 am

I sort of agree with SwedeRacer. A relationship may not be the best idea, but don't just cut her off. Be a good friend at the very least.

BuG · Post by **BuG** » Thu Mar 06, 2003 10:55 pm

Dude if you like her go for it. Fuck everything else around you both and go for it. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out but give it a try anyways.

roadeh · Post by **roadeh** » Fri Mar 07, 2003 5:45 pm

If I was her I wouldn't like you. I'd be all like "fuck him, if he cant accept that I have a kid than he can go fuck himself.

(:

You better hurry and make a fucking decision. Stop caring about what other people think bitch. gagafdgadsfasfgdat3421#1

Switchback · Post by **Switchback** » Fri Mar 07, 2003 8:24 pm

I think the real problem here is that she uses retarded internet slang like "u" and "ppl".

Really though, it's not that she just has a kid, it's that she was irresponsible enough to have a kid. ?Of course you are going to get pregnant if you don't take preventative methods. ?I'm sure she is much more responsible now, having a kid tends to do that, but still that shows serious carelessness or ignorance.

You shouldn't not like her because of what people would say. ?That is the most shallow reason to not like someone. ?Not liking her because she was not mature enough to be having sex when she was is.

rudesmurf · Post by **rudesmurf** » Fri Mar 07, 2003 9:48 pm

ya wtf nimec, don't be so gay. if you like her enough the baby shouldn't be a problem. i guess you are still in that stage in your life that other peoples opinions mean the world to you than making yourself happy.

would you jump into a bunch of pudding in front of them? when you can say yes, you are a man. ;x

xunshin · Post by **xunshin** » Mon Mar 10, 2003 5:08 am

judging from that conversation, she seems to genuinely like you. and sure, of course there's a certain stigma that comes with being a teen mother but when it comes down to it, it's about what you want and not what other people think. fuck closeminded people who pass judgement, for they have no right. i do believe in letting people live their own lives; that's the way i was raised. she made a mistake -- a rather large one, but it was still just a mistake -- and she acknowledges it. i have a hard time believing someone who's a "slut" could take the responsibility of trying to raise a child, show that shows good moral fibre.

it's up to you, dude. if i were you, i'd see how things pan out; she seems like a sweet enough girl from what you've said and just feeling the general "mood" of the conversation you posted.