Axe, i used to feel like that too, but then i feel in love, well i thought i did
i now know one day i do wanna get married and have kids, but there are a hell of alot of thing i wanna expierence in life first...now to find a women as kinky as me, that will be hard loololol
for now im just gonna chill with my friends, play music and just enjoy life...if i one day meet someone thats great, if i dont mail order bride ;0
Axe, i used to feel like that too, but then i feel in love, well i thought i did
i now know one day i do wanna get married and have kids, but there are a hell of alot of thing i wanna expierence in life first...now to find a women as kinky as me, that will be hard loololol
for now im just gonna chill with my friends, play music and just enjoy life...if i one day meet someone thats great, if i dont mail order bride ;0
Hell yeah man, who wouldn't want to tell your kids that the seed that made him/her came from a hot bondage session in the basement downstairs?
hmm... well im not the most experienced person but I'll just jot down my thoughts..
Although I agree with Axe, there comes a time in your life when your friends become distant, your life and goals become meaningless and there is no longer anyone to share your experiences with. This usually happens when you get older but trust me if you don't start a love life somewhere down the track then you will probably become an old unloved man whose only three locations of travel would your own apartment to watch tv until the day you die, hospital and the local pub to catch up with all the other jeriatric old farts. thats assuming theres no religion in your life. Some people though were never meant to be with anyone.
My current love life is shit house, sex is one thing but to be loved is another.. to know someones gonna be there to embrace you, share their life with you and love you no matter what, well fuck that would make anyone feel special.
Everyone has diffrent needs though. I used to think fuck love I'll never need it but then one day I fell in love with someone I couldn't have and things have never been the same again. Guess now Im seeking something I can't find in nightclubs or bars..... and if I start feeling lonley for to long Im gonna seriously flip. When I whatch tv I need to be holding someone. In any case I am weak in a way as Axe said, but I'll live.
While this isn't exactly advice, I though I would share my thoughts on the matter.
It has long been my opinion that women are for the weak. My God would it suck to have the same bitch pestering you every day for the rest of you life. I don't plan to ever get married, and that doesn't bother me one bit. Too much drama, aggravation, and stress. I have enough of that with day to day troubles, I don't need someone always around me to add to it. Plus all the other crap that goes on with relationships: break-ups, divorces, lying, cheating, children, bloody revenge.
Women are fine in their own right, but this long term commitment stuff is not my cup of tea. But then again, I try to be a simple person with a simple life. I know my opinion is unpopular, but I look at whats beneficial to me rather than whats the norm.
Some of you guys know that I've been with my woman for a year and a couple months without even any slight problems. I consider this an awesome feat and I attribute it to the maturity and intelligence shown in the relationship (by both of us) and also because Tori is awesome. I mean... she thinks like a guy, sometimes acts like one, but is still feminine. She really is my best friend.
But for anybody other than Tori and that special 2% of the total female population that isn't worthless other than for making babies, I totally agree with Axe. Most women you encounter are bad driving, overanalyzing, not-in-the-kitchen-enough whinebags.
I won't give advice, because I personally hate advice, it's the bane of my existance. I've only got in life a few really good mates, me and sh3p have taken the rough with the smooth and times and were pretty close. There's a few other no names and the rest of the people I call friends, might as well call me Uncle, I'm always looking after them.
So being able to talk about how I was feeling about girls was pretty hard y0. There was one girl, who I liked alot (Michelle) we got on pretty well but in the end even though we never got together, I felt kicked around like a punch bag and that pissed me off pretty good, consequently I nearly kicked the shit out this guy (long story). On reflection being so angry made me feel shit, I'm conditioned to control my anger and to be focused in all situations. And in a meer instant I lost my rag and all point of view other than getting really pissed and smashing something.
In short? I shut myself off, I had female friends but that was that, if sex was in the equation for a one night stand than so be it. But relationships and love was like my own worst enemy. It took me a year or so to simmer down and let go of what happened, in the end I asked out a girl who I'm still with, three years, ha pretty big turn around.
And yea I could see myself with her in a few years, but marriage, I dunno. I'm happy as I am, I'm happy within myself and happy to be in this relationship. We've split about three times now, the longest was about a month or so, for various reasons. Times haven't been easy for both of us, her Mum passed away not so long ago and before that it was a rocky road.
Which is shit, but you have to get on with life right?
Himmel
I tried to find a girlfriend for so long after i got out of my last relationship, im not a bar or night club kinda guy so i tried finding girls at shows and stuff. That usually ment i ended up meeting some wasted punk slut who'd kick my ass in the pit then make out with me and like every other guy there. The week i stopped looking and caring if i found someone i met my current GF at school of all places.
l0bstar
That really is an awsome feat, goos luck with the future. My GF was also kinda tomboyish but feminine, she could kick my ass in like any game...and she especially rocked at board games, i ended up flipping over the board half the time. She was also a kick ass driver lol
Bean
Wow bean, Has it been better after the splits or did it stay the same. What ive noticed is that after the first and second time we had serious issues (second being early Sunday/Monday) Sex was way better and it wasnt just make up sex it was consistantly better afterwards. Also when we started off she was having alot of personal problems and still is, and i helped her get through alot of it, i guess now its her turn?
Basically we had a very long talk on the day she came back, and decided to try to work it out, but with less strings and more good times...thing are going to be alot different, but it will be alot better for the both of us, I also talked about alot of personal issues ive been having an she trying to help me out :thumbup:
We're gonna see how if goes for afew weeks then decide from there i guess, thanks for the advice and/or stories guys.
Feel free to keep posting about relationships.
Dude. go for what makes you happy, if you don't love her, break up. let her get on with her life and go to Quebec. Sometimes however you don't know you really love someone until you lose them. clich?d, but true.
I've been going out with this girl for 4 and a half years, and things are kinda dry... there's just something about relationships that get dragged through a long time... I feel like me and her have lost the emo connection.
While this isn't exactly advice, I though I would share my thoughts on the matter.
It has long been my opinion that women are for the weak. My God would it suck to have the same bitch pestering you every day for the rest of you life. I don't plan to ever get married, and that doesn't bother me one bit. Too much drama, aggravation, and stress. I have enough of that with day to day troubles, I don't need someone always around me to add to it. Plus all the other crap that goes on with relationships: break-ups, divorces, lying, cheating, children, bloody revenge.
Women are fine in their own right, but this long term commitment stuff is not my cup of tea. But then again, I try to be a simple person with a simple life. I know my opinion is unpopular, but I look at whats beneficial to me rather than whats the norm.
I second your opinion. I doub't if I will ever get married. Just too much drama in a married relationship. The most I thinkj I might do is move in with a girl, but that is it.