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Pestilence · Post by **Pestilence** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 6:15 am

So i outed myself on BFL, thought id do the same here. (some of you already know)

Discuss and/or flame

good night.

NebZ · Post by **NebZ** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 7:10 am

JESUS CHRIST MORE FAGGETS

nah, I'm just kidding.

It's no big deal dude and I'm sure everyone else is cool with it.

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 7:37 am

Yeah, especially here. Even if you do hear one or two gay jokes, its all in jest. Don't worry about it, and you're a better man than hundreds of men would ever be.

meat` · Post by **meat`** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 8:16 am

i am unaware of a generally accepted social acknowledgment for coming out, so:

"congratulations!"

"good for you!"

"it's cool."

"your mother and i always suspected."

"you know your uncle bruce is a gay."

pick your favourite and roll with it pesty :cool:

is it too soon/not our business to ask for an explanation as to why you felt you needed to be 'out' with us? i've always been curious about this desire some gay people have to be 'out' and i've only known one openly gay person before. and he was a drugged up mental patient sabin and i went to school with.

Beyonder · Post by **Beyonder** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 3:51 pm

ive thought of something worthy to say, but then I drew the conclusion that I really couldn't care less (not in a negative way)

I'll go with "Congratulations!" as coming out is often the start of accepting yourself or something

dj_de · Post by **dj_de** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 4:34 pm

ive thought of something worthy to say, but then I drew the conclusion that I really couldn't care less (not in a negative way)

I'll go with "Congratulations!" as coming out is often the start of accepting yourself or something

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i didnt know :eek:

l0bstar · Post by **l0bstar** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 6:41 pm

ok now the topic makes perfect sense! i've had people come out of the closet to me before, and i give them all the same speech. it goes like this "oh, ok. that's cool."

Pestilence · Post by **Pestilence** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 3:10 am

ROFL, im bi

I've been "out" in real life for months now, but im just tired of hiding who i am, if i can be myself in real life why not here too you know.

you guys are cool though.

JavaBomberman · Post by **JavaBomberman** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 3:42 am

my roommate is gay.

hrm, bi you say? is this true? I have been skeptical of the "bi" thing. see, my ideas on homosexuality are that it is a chemical irregularity of some sort, so I think of it as something that people have no control over. with my roommate, he tells me that he is just gay, and always has been. it just isn't in his ability to be attracted to girls, as I am not able to be attracted to men. not in a truly physical way anyways. I can differentiate when males are attractive or not, but it's more of a socially learned type of ability. anyways, what makes you bi? if you care to explain. I'm curious.

Pestilence · Post by **Pestilence** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 4:16 am

Honestly, i always thought i was gay. Then i hit puberty and realized girls aren't bad either. because of religion and the way i was raised i was forced to hide the queerness till a while ago when i just stoped giving a fuck. Now im 100% out and proud. I take alot of shit at school sometimes, but wtf do i care what a bunch of silly little virgins think.