So, my friend's brother died the other day

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 12:52 am

It was pretty sad, I was sick yesterday and I didn't get a chance to post it. It was really depressing because everyone was wearing black today, and she was about to cry(she was crying the whole day yesterday, which was quite sad to watch). I was wanting to talk to her, but I don't know what to say. I'm afraid to say the wrong things and stuff... Yeah, I don't know what else.

nimec · Post by **nimec** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 1:07 am

shit man im sorry to here that. just like give her a hug and hold her and stuff. and over time she will probaly start to talk about all the good times she had with her bro. all you can do then is listen to her and just let her know your there as someone to talk to.

Fudgeman · Post by **Fudgeman** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 1:16 am

so sorray to hear that, ;_;

don't be sad, you have us ^_^

mr_lee · Post by **mr_lee** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 1:51 am

that's terrible cat :( i'm really sorry to hear that. such an awful thing to happen. if you do talk to her don't say things that she's already heard a million times, eg "how're you feeling?" etc.

it's a tricky situation and she'll need some time to sort stuff out in her head... i guess the best you can do is wait :/

* mr_lee hugs

Stealth_Shot · Post by **Stealth_Shot** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 1:52 am

D;

/me hug also

field ump · Post by **field ump** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 2:19 am

yas, the same thing happened to me lastweek. :(

a friend from high school's sister was killed in an accident in which the other car had 4 occupants of which 3 died. our local paper said that my friend's sister was driving aggressively but that's not her. she was probably doing something that everyone does all the time like messin with the radio, lightin a cig or what have you and just happened to vere into the on comin lane.

didn't get to go to the funeral so i called my friend up to express my condolences. she seemed real happy to hear from me, just hope i made her day a little brighter.

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 2:24 am

yas, the same thing happened to me lastweek. :(

a friend from high school's sister was killed in an accident in which the other car had 4 occupants of which 3 died. ?our local paper said that my friend's sister was driving aggressively but that's not her. ?she was probably doing something that everyone does all the time like messin with the radio, lightin a cig or what have you and just happened to vere into the on comin lane.

didn't get to go to the funeral so i called my friend up to express my condolences. ?she seemed real happy to hear from me, just hope i made her day a little brighter.

That sucks, my friend already has enough people hugging her and trying to comfort her, but I think that's one of the reasons she keeps on crying. It was good to see her smile a bit in class, though.

Thanks for the advice.

mr_lee · Post by **mr_lee** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 4:25 am

crying is a good thing, not a bad thing though!

subblet · Post by **subblet** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 4:59 am

shit man im sorry to here that. ?just like give her a hug and hold her and stuff. and over time she will probaly start to talk about all the good times she had with her bro. ?all you can do then is listen to her and just let her know your there as someone to talk to.

Cat is a girl yo

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Thu Nov 14, 2002 6:04 am

Cat is a girl yo

wut im a man